Receiving 100% Responsibility is essential in our lifestyle. It has to be an part of our character and our life. Just if we feel like it, it can't be on the hit-and-miss basis. We've to agree to it 24/7, at any time, and in any situation.
About twenty years ago when I was living in California, 1 day I ran a speeding ticket lawyer in AC. I still vividly remember it. It was a morning, and I had a few essential errands to run for my business. My mind was every where. After my first session, as I was rushing to another one, I ran a red light. Usually I consider myself to be a responsible driver, and managing a red light isn't acceptable to me. However it happened.
After working the red light, I nervously looked around to be sure that there were no police cars around me. To my surprise, there was one just to my left. He quickly turned on his siren and flashing red lights, and guided me to park on the right side of the road. I angrily thought to myself, "This may be the last thing I wanted to take place. Now I've to pay a fine, it will look at my driving record, and my insurance costs will rise. I wish I'd been more responsible in driving. It has entirely destroyed my day."
The police officer parked right behind me and I parked my car to the side of the road. His red emergency lights were flashing the entire community, announcing the capture of the new prison, and hopefully, teaching an excellent lesson to everybody.
I sat in my car awaiting law enforcement officer. Those few minutes felt like an eternity. I had room to operate. I really could not deny or produce any excuses. How may I? I ran a light, and the officer was next to me.
A very unorthodox and entirely away from box thought came to my mind, as i was waiting for law enforcement officer to get out of his car. I told myself, let's be creative. He is going to provide me a ticket anyway. It's maybe not likely to worsen than that! Let's change the game plan and fully surprise him. It may work.
I took my driver's license, insurance, and registration cards out. I'd them ready in my hand. I rolled down the window and anxiously waited for him to come to me.
He got out of his car, adjusted his belt, and touched his gun. He walked toward me like he was planning to catch Al Capone. He wanted me to feel his presence. Trust in me, I did. But he had no idea that he was planning to meet a really strange driver.
I handed him the documents that I had in my hand, before he opened his mouth to talk, when he found me. I instantly told him, "Officer, you don't have to say any such thing. I know very well what I did. I ran a light and I Accept one hundred thousand Responsibility for this. To me, managing a red light is just a major traffic violation. I can't think what I have done. I'm ashamed of myself."
I then said, "Officer, there's only one way that I will learn a good training and make certain that this won't happen again. And that is for you to punish me roughly, increase the fine, as well as double it. That will show me an excellent lesson."
The officer was speechless. He did not know whether to issue me a Wildwood traffic ticket or take me to a mental hospital. A couple of minutes earlier he'd been acting like a sheriff in just one of these western movies, and now he was like a kind friend looking to comfort me. Having a calm voice, he said, "Mr. Noor, this could occur to any of us. I'm glad to see that you accept responsibility to your violation. I would like to go always check your driving record. I'll be right back."
A few minutes later, he explained, "Mr. Noor and returned if you ask me, I examined your driving record. You're an extremely responsible driver. I will enable you to go this time around, but be careful. Running a red light, when you mentioned, is a major traffic violation. Drive securely, and have an excellent day." And he left.
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I quickly rolled-up the window and screamed, "Yes! Yes! It worked! It worked!"
Therefore, what's the moral of this story? Recognize 100 % Responsibility of all you do in your life. Then Accept 100% Responsibility to fix what you did wrong, if you are unsuccessful. Apologize to the other person, and before it gets out of control, do it immediately. When doing that, you will be amazed to find out how quickly each other will forgive you. And there will be-a good chance the outcome will turn in your favor-even... Should you run a red light.
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